it ok to not be ready
People go on and sit through the whole experience and they’re uncomfortable because they just want to please their partner and they don’t tell them that they want to stop because they are not ready. It’s okay not to be ready.
You know what, it’s 1000% okay to say stop. Even if you’ve had sex a bazillion times before. Anytime, anytime. Don’t feel like you’re letting your partner down. If you don’t want to, you don’t want to. Most partners would much rather you tell them to stop, no sane person wants to have sex with someone who is unwilling or isn’t able to. And if your partner does, cut them right out of your life.